Sober transgender dating

As a transgender woman, I feel nervous when I meet someone for the first time, since trans dating is not easy for all trans people. I used alcohol to relax myself when dating with someone, but later, I realized that it is totally wrong to do that.
I cannot control what I say and what I do when I'm drunken, and I can even do something not fit for my personality. In order to keep sober in dating, I choose to date my partner during the day time, because I often get drunk when dating someone during the night. It is a bad habit to drink too much when dating someone for the first time. I share my experience with everyone here only because I want to help all transgender women to have a successful dating.