Transition can both affects your body and mind, if choose to be with transgender people, you need to respect their change. You can know more about your lover in this way.
They don't like questions about transgender
It's rude to ask any questions about their gender and trans surgery. You should respect their privacy and never ask questions about it.
People will often ask"why you are not a real man or woman?'
I've been asked these kinds of questions before, "I really don't understand why you do that", "How do you live as a normal woman?" Trans women are real women.