Be honest to your partner. Honesty is the key point of every relationship, especially love relationship. You should tell your partner that you are trans people at the beginning of the relationship on
transgender dating site, and ask if he can really accept you. This is the first step of mutual trust, and it's also a way to protect yourself from being hurt in the love relationship.
Be yourself. Don't compromise yourself or your beliefs in order to please other people. If someone loves in this way, he just loves the character you created, not who you are. It's not a happy ending for both you and your partner.
As a
transgender person, you should not always focus on the form of the love relationship. Be patient to meet the right one.
